To pass the time.... lots and lots and lots of magazines/books/ipod.... At the nicu here there was a computer with internet access... im not sure about gestational ages but im quite sure unless they need very minimal breathing assistance they will be going to nicu first. I hope the little ones wont be on the cpap machine as thats a long road of ups and downs (for me it was anyway) Make sure she is eating properly, and drinking lots of water, the hospital should supply water anyway and some choccies :-) But unless they ask for visitors, i'd stay away., for me i didnt get DS to myself for the whole 2 and a half weeks he was in, and i didnt bond properly. Im not good at advice lol but your cousin will pull through and it does get better and soon enough when she gets home she wont think about hospital everyday (hugs)