Beema- thanks for the reply!! my Lily is also having weight issues!!! she's on added calories to help her gain faster..but its just such a SLOW process!!!!! i'm sick of worrying about it too! I'm glad to hear my girl isnt the only one who screams so bad during nappy changes, although it is slowly improving!! i do have a bouncer and she HATES it..she seems to hate all of the 'normal' things everyone suggests to help calm her down! as for reflux im not sure if she has it, have an appointment with the pediatrician tomorrow so might ask about that, but we had elevated the bassinette from the time we got home, but she still hates it! i guess i just have to keep persevering and hope that it all settles soon!
leesa- thanks for the tips, i might look into that infants friend stuff..is it to help calm bubs gut? yeah my Lily also sleeps in our arms only, but now she's started screaming and crying even when held, when previously she only cried when put down!! AGHHH this is one tough journey!!!