hun, it is no more your fault that Amelia is going through this, than it is her fault that you had to be operated on, and *you* were sick and in danger ...
whenever you start feeing guilty, imagine that she is feeling guilty about things happening to you, and blaming herself for endangering and hurting her mumma ... then tell yourself whatever you'd be telling her, to comfort her, and reassure her that it's really nothing to do with her ... it's just what happened ...
it sucks and it's not what either of you would ever have wanted for yourself or anyone else, and definitely not for each other - but it is what happened, and you both are going to be ok. you have each other, you are doing everything within your power now to help and heal her - and yourself - and you will both be wonderfully healthy soon ... she is doing so brilliantly already under your care and protection, you should be applauding yourself already.
Crashing in here, but this is NOT your fault!
Theres nothing anyone could have done to change things.
I cant begin to imagine what you are dealing with (though I love seeing Miss As pics and updates!) but you and your precious Miss A are proving every day how strong you are. *hugs*
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