fletch we are going to wait a while. I would love to have another one now but i dont think i could do it. Falling pregnant after my miscarraige i was worried all the time i would lose it, i think this time i would be worried about the same and also if i would have it early.
+ my partner has 2 kids from a previous marraige so i think we will have to sit down and see if we could afford 4. Would have to get a new car, house etc.

Though one thing i am worried out is that, if we had another one and i went to term etc, i would be worried that i would favour jarred because of all he went through to be here with us and i dont want that. For others that have had kids after a prem did you find you favoured your prem or let them get away with more????