Our friends had their identical twin baby boys 3 weeks ago - born at 25 weeks and 4 days gestation. They are little fighters and so far are doing as well as can be expected. As they are so premmie their mum is staying in a unit near the hospital so she can be at the hospital each day (they live about 1.5 hours from the hospital) and dad is working and driving from home to the hospital several days a week. A friend and I plan to do a big cook up of dinners for them to freeze so mum and dad just have to pop dinner in the microwave each night and not think any more about it. Anyone out there who's had a premmie baby, what kind of help/gifts did you find most beneficial during this time???