I know exactly how you feel. It took weeks before I felt like DD was 'mine'. It was just like visiting someone in Hospital. Staring at them through a plastic box day after day week after week. No bonding. Just visiting.
Things changed at 4w when we moved to a smaller SCN and DD was in an open cot and we were able to hold her.
Hugs hun. Mine was in SCN just for the night and that was hard enough. Is there something you could do like create a scrapbook with photos and your written memories of this time? Would that help a bit
Hope you're bringing your little one home very soon.
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