My SIL's sister had a baby boy at 27 weeks last night. I know her obviously but not super well. Was planning on sending a little present and card when bub was born.

I asked Dh if we should send a card to them tomorrow. He said maybe we shuold wait and see how things go..... I said even if things don't go weel they still had a baby so I think a congrats on your baby boy card would be ok??

what do you mums of premmies think? For now bub is doing well.. he weighed 856 grams I think and 37cm long and last I heard he was breathing on his own (would that be right) and is active..

They don't live in the same town as us so we can't do much else for them.. but would a card be ok? or should we wait a few days in case things don't go well meaning would a card like that upset them....

Thanks