Leaving Baby

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

i have not been there but have had a friend who has and it was heartbreaking seeing the pain she was going through not being there all day every day with her LO.
Firstly your husband needs to realise you have a child PLUS a baby in hospital, THEY are your priorities.
Do you have anyone than can come around and help with cleaning, family etc that might be able to make you some meals.

If you need help don't be afraid to ask, people will realise your going through a tough time and i think ANYONE in your position would be feeling the same stresses.

[~*Kat*~]

My family r great but after me being in hospital for 8 weeks before I had Flynn and now they still need to help look after DD while I am in at the hospital with the baby I dont want to ask too much.
I am managing to do bits and peices around the house including cleaning a kitchen that didn't look like it has been touched in weeks (long before I came home from hospital) and feeding DD and myself breakfast and stuff so he can stick it. I need to be with Flynn and if that means I dont cook dinner he can get over it theres no reason why he cant cook (except I have to clean up after him or it wont get done)