Bah to lousy, absent fathers
Well done on all your hard work so far - you've already produced some milk, that's great! I hope it's not much longer before you can hold your little man.
You are doing an amazing job hun! Its so great to hear that you got to use the mothers milk bank. I'm planning to donate to them with my baby this time and its soooo good to hear of someone who has been able to benefit from it!
Looking forward to sharing your journey on BB. What lucky boys you have.
You are amazing. XP is a douche. Someone else is amazing - you know who i mean.
Im so glad little J has your name! Not long now til you can hold your precious little bubba! Now my little princess has 2 little boyfriends to choose from hehe. You are in no way a failure and should never blame yourself. XP is a failure in soooo many ways!
If you need ANYTHING call or message me! So so proud of you! Here's hoping little Jett's stay is short and sweet xo
Thanks everyone for the support Its truely means alot to me.
Ammaki- I truely do owe alot to you! you have been like my little rock, someone who has helped me through absolutly everything, i really could never repay you for the support you have given me.
As for little miss getting to choose her bfs- id be truely the happiest mumma if your daughter was my daughter in law- there would be none of this evil MIL business
As for my XP i know his a douche as for the 'someone' else his absolutly amazing. Been spoiling me rotten- i even got roses this morning
congratulations on thearrival of baby Jett. I hope he is doing well and you are feeling a bit better. All that you are feeling a garuntee every parent to a prem/sick newborn has felt the same, its def not your fault.
My DD was also premmie due to placenta abruption at 29 weeks 6 days (via emergency c-section). I think it is not very common, and it is soooo frightening when it happens. PM me if you ever want to talk about it. I had to have a general anesthetic as part of the placenta came out as well and DD's heart beat was way too low. We were home in 6 weeks 4 days fully breastfeeding (2 weeks NICU, the rest special care).
It is so surreal getting used to the NICU life, so use whatever supports they have. ASk to see the social worker/counsellor if they have not seen you yet, and do not stress too much about how much milk you get at first. It can take time to increase when you are only able to pump. Hopefully you will get lots of kangaroo cuddles soon and then before you know it little Jett will be home.
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