i really dont know a good way of getting through the coming weeks other than now knowing so many other bubs who have been born so early and fought hard and doing well now.
I think the next time around your so much more aware that a baby can be born as early as 23-24wks. First time around i think i was pretty oblivious, where as the next time not only was i stressed to get passed 33wks i was stressed knowing how early a baby could come.
maybe making small goals to acheive now will make the next 4wks atleast seem not so bad, like first aim is getting to 24wks, in the next few days that goal can be ticked off and onto the next one 25weeks...taking it 1 week at a time instead of thinking and therfore feeling 28wks is still so far away and FT is still so far away??
i dont know if any of that made sence or not?!