Thanks for your responses and advice guys! Det your insight is really appreciated and Saffy - I know I cant believe it happening so soon either - but then I cant believe your already almost 22 weeks - so time flies!

I am still desperately hoping to get to 34 weeks - my OB saysthere is zero chance of going beyond 34 so I guess that's my best case senario. I did ask if I could have a look through NICU and they don't let you in unless you have a baby in there to limit the spread of germs or infection according to my Dr so I guess we will have to wait to have a look.

Next scan is tomorrow so I guess we will know more then.. Fingers crossed we can hang in there for another few weeks x