Tiff, I agree with Bec too, trust your instincts, you are with your babies 24/7, a MCHN, ponly sees them briefly for the time you are in there & that cant be an accuarte time to judge your baby/ies...

If you believe he is ready to be turned around, turn him, if you think he wants more than milk, feed him... etc, etc....

I listen to the MCHN for weight gain, growth etc & the rest I take it or leave it!!!

I want to pop across to your place & give you a break for a bit.... Wish I was closer, coz matey your doing amarvellous job & rather than being down on yourself,m you should be revelling in being a Mother & a bloody fantastic one at that... I say 3 cheers to you... Hip Hip HOORAY, Hip Hip HOORAY,. Hip Hip HOORAY!!!!!!

Darl, we are all here for you, even like me who hasnt had a premmis... I still want you to enjoy it & know your a great Mummy....