Sal, Tristan sounds like he is a happpy and contented little baby who is getting enough to eat, perhaps he was always going to be small? Would it be an issue if he hadn't been a prem? I think you are doing an amazing job with both boys, what lucky kids to have such dedicated parents as you two!
Charlie is a big boofer at 11.8kgs, he has certainly caught up size wise, we have been very lucky with our long term 'issue's', we will see what he is like next winter if the chronic lung thingy is better or if we do the hospy run's again......
butterfly warrior, we couldn't bring ourselves to order a doll, we have a stuffed monkey that was in the cot with charlie when he was born and it's the same length, skinny legs, same size head etc but I can still food myself into thinking " Oh, Charlie was a bit bitter than that, he was heavier etc etc. " I think the reality of the doll would just be too much. A premmie mum friend of ours has one of her daughter, she was only 24 weeks and I don't cope with that AT ALL it's tooooooo small, toooo confronting........ But it's been really important for her to remember how small Tilly was when she was born....
Whatever it takes to get through is my philosopy, I still don't cope very well remembering those days........Charlie's due date is coming up and we just passed his coming home date a few days ago.....
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