He is in the best place. It is true about the sucking. Generally kicks in by around 36 weeks but can still be a bit over the place. I was told putting them to the breast helps understand that that means food. Even if you just hold him close to ur body thats good.

Trust your instincts. If you believe something stand up for both of you. I found finding a nurse or two I was comfortable with helped

**my little girl was born at 30 weeks and were discharged 7 weeks and 1 day later. Everyone is different tho