So PP is she 9 months corrected?
How do feel about it? Do you feel she is lacking or developing ok?
I don't know if many 'normal' 9 month olds would be doing pointing, clapping, and such (maybe one thing, but not all things)
Is your specialist offering any solutions to the suggestions?

Each baby is different and there is a large developmental window for each of these things.
Yes, shes 9 months corrected.

We meet a different physio tomorrow, for another assessmemt, which is part of her early intervention clinic treatment. (as well as speech and ot)

I honestly feel that she is behind with fine motor skills and want to help her progress quickly (as all mums want what's best for their kids) she also tippy toes. Cerebral palsy has been mentioned a few times being that shes prem, had brain bleeds and showing a few signs.