Dd2 came naturally at 34 weeks so ill answer as best as I can

B2 will likely be in a Humdi crib as thy need to be kept warm and can't quite regulate thier temperature as yet

In relation to holding baby it will depend on your hospital n baby. If bubs is ok and doctors do the ok then yes you will be able to. However be prepared to also not be able to. I saw 3 babies come at 34 weeks 2 could be held and 1 couldn't.

They won't have a strong suck reflex do another week or so. But watch as they'll click all of a sudden. Whenever they look like they are searching allow them to try but not be annoyed if nurses top up.

Expect them to be in the nursery for 3-4 weeks