I also found I clicked and bonded to some nurses while others drove me up the wall (especially those that didnt want to listen or be flexible). try and bond with a few nurses - dont dismiss the younger ones or those training as I found they were awesome and willing to let you do what was needed. THey also were great at explaining things and are used to mums on the 'emotinal rollercoaster'

Remember to listen to the doctors as they do the rounds ask questions and a little pushy always helps. And make sure they document everything down in the babies notes. I had a nurse refuse to help me attach my DD2 on the breast as according to the nurse I was only meant to be doing 2 breastfeeds a day (she didnt take into account that it was all i was able to be in for) and by trying a third it would be a waste of time. This was even though DD2 was searching and trying. The next day i made the doctor note that she could be on alternate feeds and top ups as required as well as suck feeds if the staff feel she is searching.