not bad parents just sensible, we are not buying new toys etc and we are reusing DD's baby gym and swing!

We are kind of lucky as DD was quite small and born in Oct so a lot of her 0000 and 000 clothes etc are summer clothes, so we should be able to get away with not buying many clothes at all.
Will be nice to put some stuff aside for DD as her own and for #2 as 'only hers' hehe.

Trying to save cash where we can really, obviously the bigger items are a must but i want her to have her own bookshelf etc anyway.

So scary..... not long for us now!