Thanks girls for all the replies! Leasha I hadn't thought about being limited to one store... hmm!
LSK that's a great idea about the big thing on lay buy... will keep that one in mind.
Punkin that's a good idea too, with the notebook - but TBH sounds like a bit too much work for me
Maybe I'll do a combo - make my own, informal list from Baby Bunting (ie walk around with a notepad) and some other stores, then leave that with mum/MIL/sis and say "Contact X for gift ideas" or whatever. That way I'm not restricting it to one store.
Actually I'm not doing the invites so I don't really need to worry about what to put on there...
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