i struggled aswell to hold my sons weight for breastfeeding so for my daughter i bought a breastfriend and LOVED it worth everycent supported my back and once she got heavier i could just lay her on the pillow and use my hands to cuddle her(or grooming) i cant wait to use it again with my 3rd child
while im only 25 weeks along im desperate to get it back off my friend just so i know i can use straight away lol