Wow First-time-mummy! You have done so well for yourself and are a great example of not being a slave to expectations/advertising/overly consumeristic etc! Just shows what can be done when it needs to be!
It's hard to work out what we spent- our nursery furniture was about $800, pram $800, car seat $400. Other than that, I am not sure about clothing- maybe a couple of hundred including singlets, wraps etc Toiletries and other sundries- maybe one hundred?? That was the bulk of it from what I can remember. Second time round- no much yet. have delved into cloth nappies so that would be our biggest expense at a few hundred dollars!