Capsule/Car seat - a must-buy?

[luna moth]

I can't believe that about taxis in Victoria! What a joke! Why should they be exempt from the law? I think I will write to some pollies about that one.
I do remember giving someone a bollocking at Sydney airport one time as they loaded their <3 mth old onto a lap in the front seat of a car. There's just no excuse to get away with that when you can hire them so cheaply. My mum in NSW will definitely be hiring or borrowing one for when I visit, and the in-laws in Melbourne have my old reversible one. I have a friend who took hers on the plane with her, and I think that's a bit silly.

Anyway, thanks everyone for your help. I'm trying very hard not to think of the cost per use - it could very well end up being $30-40 if we keep going like we are now! Eeek!

[paradise lost]

Try thinking about the life of the SEAT, not the use with this one bubs.

I have no car but i had a rear-facing capsule that came with the pram (a "travel system" from Graco) and when DD outgrew it i bought a 1+2 stage (9months to 5 years) seat to replace it. Some of the times i used it:

When i was heading for PND and a good friend offered to come and take me and DD out of the city and away from XP (who i was in the middle of splitting from and who was hastening the PND in) for a day.

When my Dad was visiting and he wanted to take me to the beach to walk in the surf like we did when i was a teen - it is one of my most precious memories, BFing her listening to the surf...

When i needed to buy food and the cheapest/best supermarkets charged a lot for delivery and the only other option was to buy small quantities at WAY poorer value because i couldn't carry the larger amounts with DD in the wrap (i buy 36 tins of tomatoes at a time!).

When i needed to get DD to her father's house (after the split) but had a stress fracture in my foot and was NOT able to push or carry her the 2 miles to get there.

When, in the midst of a storm complete with 70mph gales and 90mph gusts (20 tiles came off the roof!) DD had to be gotten BACK from her father, who had to go to work, and the buses had stopped running (high-sided and several had been blown over). DP came and got me and the seat and we went and got DD.

Now my capsule is safely awaiting its next charge, and i use her current seat ALL the time. It's installed in DP (who doesn't live with us yet)'s car and we use it to take her out at the weekends (no, we don't HAVE to, but even DD thinks 3 hours in the science centre is more fun than 90mins in the science centre and 90mins on trains and buses), to get her home from her dad, to got to the shops if need be (i try to use the delivery service if i can get enough bargains to make it "pay" for itself or a free voucher because it's better for the planet that way). Despite this she still uses PT with one or other of her parents about 4x/week and i STILL seem to have to walk about 3 miles a day on average Her current seat will last another 3 years (up to 15kg with the harness and then up to age 5-7 with the car's belt fastened over instead, like a booster but with greater side-protection ) and the old capsule will surely do for our next kids (we only plan one or 2 more). It's likely we'll need to buy a booster for DD when #2 is big enough to need her seat, but hopefully #2 will be fine in said booster by the time #3 needs the seat I'll bet if you look in your kitchen cupboards you have a lot of cookware you barely ever use which doesn't keep you up at night.

Bx

[suse]

I can't believe that about taxis in Victoria! What a joke! Why should they be exempt from the law? I think I will write to some pollies about that one.

It's because taxis are legally classed as public transport... So dangerous. If you do have to catch a cab without a baby-seat, put baby into a carrier if you have one (preferably one where they are upright and inward facing). Still nowhere near ideal, but at least they won't go flying with a sudden stop or collision.

[paradise lost]

With the baby carrier make sure you fasten your belt around YOU but NOT THE BABY. If the baby is between you and the belt in a collision you will crush it to death. Fasten your belt, then slip the bubs in the carrier on.

From a safety POV if you HAVE to travel in a vehicle where there aren't enough belts then you belt the heaviest person first. The lightest person (the baby) should be the one to travel loose. I know this goes against mummy-instinct but in a crash situation you are more likely to be able to hang onto a baby, but if it is fastened in and your 70kg body hits it in the seat at the speed of the impact you will kill it. Unrestrained passengers kill many more people in collisions than the interior of the car does.

Bx

[leebee81]

In your case I would probably get a cheap convertible - Big W have one for around $110 and Kmart often have one on sale for $120. I don't drive either but have been picked up and dropped off so we have a capsule for hubby's car and a cheap convertible just in case I need it. You can always re-sell it later and recoup some of your costs, especially if its in very good condition from not much use.