How do you feel about dummies?

[SophieRose]

Well Dp is home for the first two weeks. Gotta love annual leave. So for the first fortnight i can get the milk supply up and running without having too much of a routine set in. Just focus on getting used to having a tiny little person running my life. Hehe.

Would that be long enough to get the milk supply working properly?

[briggsy's girl]

most things i've read have said to not express and feed EBM unless necessary until bubba is 6 weeks old or more so that you can establish a good supply and get supply and demand happening. as a new mummy, i can vouch for the ouchy boobs if bubba doesn't feed at your "normal" interval! E will sometimes sleep through for up to 6 hours at night (which is awesome sleep wise for me!) but i will wake up before her in pain from engorged boobs! i've started giving her a dream feed for my own comfort... even now, she's been asleep a while and before she went to sleep only fed from one side (we'd been for a walk and the poor poppet was tired) - the other side is rather hard and uncomfy after only an hour longer than the normal break between feeds

FWIW - feeding in the middle of the night is easier on the boob than what i imagine getting a bottle of EBM would be. keep in mind that you have to heat the bottle etc so it's right temp, and some babies just don't like swapping between the two. when DH was home (he was here three weeks and has now been gone for work a week) he'd get up to E, organise her nappy while i gave her the first half of her feed, snooze for a while, burp and change her while i snoozed, then gave her back for the second half. i think it was less disrupting for both of us doing that than trying to get bub to take a bottle would be. i've now been doing the "single mummy" thing for a week and am missing that bit of help, but it's not making that much difference really. as others have said, you'd have to express during that time anyway - and i think that would take more effort and wakefulness. i feed laying in bed (am busty so it works better for us) and even though i'm awake, i'm still very rested while she feeds...

on the dummy front - E was overtired after our walk today - fed and really wanted to sleep after but was so worked up - i gave her the dummy to help her calm down - it lasted all of 2 mins - she was asleep and spat it out before i could even put her down!

[Maruschke]

We introduced a dummy at day 5 and she didn't have any nipple confusion or anything like that. If anything, it saved me from nipple damage because she was comfort sucking all the time.

Sophie - 2 weeks sounds like plenty of time!

I love dummies. They really really help X to settle just before bed. However, I dtry not to use them any other time, because I want to hear her cries and cues. We are going to try and wean the dummy off her by 4 months, but I don't care if she has one until she is 3. They work so well for us .

DD1 will take any dummy now, but the first one she took was the happy baby brand.

[SophieRose]

It's my baby shower today and my best friend rang us yesterday and asked us how we felt on dummies as she was putting together my pressie and wanted to know if we'd use them or not.
So i said it's fine, we'll most likely use them, so she bought us some orthodontic NUK ones.

[Fleur]

Happy baby shower have a great day

[shaza12345]

I use them and have no problem using them they work when you need them when teething and gums hurt, when tyler had bad reflux, and in the end tyler threw his away himself about 6 months, my Advise is to buy the $10 to $15 ones like NUK orthodontic ones i know it sounds expensive but in the long run it ends up cheaper because i had the cheaper ones $2-$5 ones and i found i was replacing them every 2 weeks or so because they would go flat, discolour and get holes in them,after having to buy dummies every other week i tryed the NUK orthodontic ones and they are brillent tyler loved them and they lasted forever so expensive at first but saves you money in the end, well did with me, as said before by others think about bonderies though tyler only ever had his when he went to bed or was really in pain because of teeth, but i dont have any issues in using them i think the product was made for a reason and defently worked for me..

[Neenee Jellybeanie]

I found with DD (and other parents have told me) bubs don't like the orthodontic ones. I have no idea why but I keep hearing from other parents that their bubs, like mine, would only go for the cherry shaped. Personally I wouldn't bother paying lots of money for dummies, believe me they will get lost! We like to joke that they run off together and breed because we'll struggle to find any for weeks and all of a sudden we look under the bed and there's 10 of them LOL!

[bon]

We like to joke that they run off together and breed because we'll struggle to find any for weeks and all of a sudden we look under the bed and there's 10 of them LOL!

LOL our 2 yo DD was a classic for this. She would be down to one dummy after losing all the others, then she would disappear into one of the bedrooms and reappear with a new one!

I was finally prompted to get rid of them for good after she had once again lost them all and the dog chewed the last one. It was surprisingly easy - I told her that the dog had chewed her dummy so we have to throw it away, but to sweeten the deal the 'dummy fairy' left her a little present for being a big girl and saying goodbye to her dummies.

When my babies were newborn I would buy the more expensive ones, as they don't tend to lose them that easily when they are so small. But as they got older I would just buy the cheap 3 pack of tommee tippee cherry soothers. My kids didn't like the happy baby ones because they would always deflate.

[~Kaz~]

So for the first fortnight i can get the milk supply up and running without having too much of a routine set in......Would that be long enough to get the milk supply working properly?

I know this is a thread about dummies but I just wanted to let you know that imo 2 weeks is not always long enough to establish your supply, nor your bfing relationship with your baby. It's great that your partner will be around because you will need the help and it's important bonding time for him too but in terms of your milk, you may still be working it all out after he goes back to work. "Everyone" told me it would take 6 weeks for supply/demand and feeding to settle down. My milk came in while I was in hossy and there seemed to be no issues with supply but then when DS was 3 weeks old, my supply dropped (not sure why) and I had to work really hard to get it back up. When DS was 7-8 weeks old we were still having issues with feeding that weren't supply related, I spoke to an ABA counsellor who told me that realistically, it can take up to 12 weeks to really establish supply (not the 6 I'd been told) and a stress free feeding r/ship. I found that by 12 weeks, DS and I were settled into more of a routine.

I wish that I'd been told about the 12 week thing before because I wouldn't have been as stressed when it was taking so long. You might be lucky and get into a feeding routine with your baby quite quickly and I hope you do but as I said during my last post, you won't know until your baby is here! All the best darl.

[SophieRose]

Oh wow, thanks for that Kaz. I guess the plan will have to wait until he's a few months old.

[~*Niadalla*~]

Dummies are by far the best invention for mankind. I hope that whomever invented them was filthy stinking rich and that their family still benefits. I would go MAD without dummies here.
My kids are comfort suckers and they lvoe their dummies. DS is nearly 2 and the only time he uses a dummy is when he goes to bed, and for long car trips (where he will sometimes fall asleep). Life savers really and have made my kids far less stressed out(and mummy and daddy are pretty chilled too).

Dummies have played no part in any infections, speech issues, or even breastfeeding issues. I have no problem with my kids switching between boob and dummy.

I don't see the harm in them at all. I am all for dummies!!

Ooo I forgot to add, dummies were introduced on day 3 with both of my kids

[Malyna]

DS doesn't like dummies at all. I have tried putting something sweet on the end of it (I used maple syrup) and he sucked it off and spat the dummy out. He doesn't like bottles either. I've tried all the shapes etc, and he just doesn't like it.