After my many deliberations I actually went with the Love n Care Twingo it will allow me to have bub facing me on one seat and my DS facing out on the other(side by side 74cm) There is also a capsule adaptor available in the US so I can have a travel system. I know realistically I'll prob only need a double for 6-9 months and this pram ticked all my boxes for a (much) cheaper price. I think I'll then upgrade my single stroller to a BJ city mini with a skateboard

The mb duet still looked and felt big, even though it was narrow iykwim? I also considered the BJ city mini double , BJ city select and Stider plus but none had seat config I needed! I'm a real pram whore so all the research was fun