For those of you who are interested, I've narrowed it down to three bags. Woohoo!!

I've done quite a bit of research and looked at many nappy bags both online and in the shops and these are the three I like (all in black):

Kapoochi Vintage Hobo
Kapoochi Vintage Tote
Storksak Emily

I still love the OiOis but have found the three above have all the features I'm after, they look like handbags more than nappy bags are are all within my price range (up to $200). Why did I go off the Isoki's? I was surprised at how big and heavy they are in real life! They are gorgeous bags, don't get me wrong, but twice as big as what I wanted and they really are quite weighty - and that's with nothing in them! I really want a bag that really doubles as a handbag and the Isokis were far too big for that.

Any opinions / feedback on these three bags I'm tossing up between would be great!