I bought two Stoksak bags on sale when PG with DD. I've used one a lot more than the other (my 'Emily') because it's more casual and pliable ie I can cram more in it

Both bags are lovely and I've hardly used a handbag since DD was born. I only use a handbag if I'm on my own at the shops or going out to dinner without DD.

Now I'm PG with our second, I'm looking to get a bigger bag. I found there was a small window (between when poos calmed down and DD started solids) when I didn't need to take as much stuff out with me so I had plenty of room but full time solids changed that. At 22 months now, DD needs snacks, water, a couple of nappies JIC, sometimes a bottle, a change of clothes (more for food or drink spills these days) and some small toys or books for distraction at the shops. There isn't much room left for my stuff so I'm considering an Isoki bag this time but I do recall being worried about their weight last time so I need to check them out.

You could very easily just get a big handbag and a nappy wallet but I've found the water proof lining inside my bags very handy a few times plus all the compartments (not too many though or you just misplace stuff). I've also found the built in insulated bottle pouches brilliant however you could buy a separate bottle pouch for a handbag.

Good luck making a decision!