I LOVE my pram! I got a baby jogger city mini pram and I love it and I've heaps of fellow people in my Mum's group comment on it too. I was like you and had no idea of what to get or even what features to get. TBH we went to the baby shop looking for a 4 wheeler (DH didn't like the idea of a 3 wheeler and I didn't care) and we wanted something that had the baby facing us and that was light and easy to fold. What we found was that most of the 4 wheeler ones where the baby faces you were not light and were quite expensive. One of the shop assistants asked if we would mind if they showed us the one they got (the baby jogger city) even though it had 3 wheels and the baby couldn't face us and we immediately loved it. It is soooooo easy to fold (there is this handle thing in the middle you just pull and the whole thing collapses down and folds in half - and it's just as easy to unfold) and it is really light. It also easily fits into my boot (I have a small car - a ford fiesta). I would honestly recommend this pram to anyone in a heartbeat. I also love that we didn't need to go and buy a seat for it once bubs grew out of a capsule which seems to be the case with quite a few prams....

Car seat - We just got a safe and sound. That too fits into my tiny car.

Cot - We got a setting that was on sale at the same time as getting the car seat and pram and we got a discount from the shop for buying so much at once....