I agree with Willow - a feeding/settling chair is a must, but ours is actually in the lounge, that way I can interact with DH or watch tv in the middle of the night while feeding - I bought a second hand glider one from a friend and this is one of my best purchases, even if I'd spend a fortune on one new I still would have got my moneys worth

The little caddy is plastic - there is actually two parts you can attach to the change table - one is a little bin with a lid, the other is a little caddy - I found them on the ebay site - they are $19.95 now, the good thing is that the clip should clip onto any change table - the IKEA product name is L?TTSAM stor basket - I've PM you with some more info

After reading Leesa's post I realise I am the same - my drawers are next to my cot with monitor, light etc

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