So we are really trying to figure out what to do bed wise.
DS1 is sleeping on a queen mattress on the floor in his room with the cot next to it.
Though DS2 who is 12 months isn't sleeping in the cot at all. I tried it and it's just not working out. Too stressful for me and him.

Most of the time they come into our bed at some stage in the night but would love to get them to stay in their own room.

SO I have a few options.

1. Is to buy two single beds, not keen on this as sometimes we lay next to them to put them to sleep.

2. Get a Double bed and they can sleep together, as I really think that if they had someone next to them they would feel calm and sleep.

3. I guess is getting a King bed and pretty much sleeping with them till their both 5 and will sleep in their own room.

Any other suggestions on what to get??