Now it's my turn. Goldilocks I certainly wasn't meaning YOU were cold just that the term is. I always think it kinda demeans the whole thing. Women who have confirmed a pregnancy to be told it was 'chemical' somehow sounds like we are saying it wasn't real iykwim??? I hope you understood that I wasn't aiming my comment at you but rather at the term.
Oh goodness I hope I haven't put my cyber foot in my cyber mouth???
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