Hi Bethany,
I can only offer an opinion as nobody can really pin point exactly when you ovulate, even ultrasound can be out.
But, the colour equal to the control suggests that the surge has happened. Ovulation occurs somewhere from 12-36 hours from when the surge happened. Because the surge is detectable in your urine about 4 hours after it happened my ob says that you will ovulate from 6-36 hours after you see a positive opk.. The colour you saw on your strip at 10pm and at 2pm today is the remanents of the surge, or some people say the surge 'coming down'. If you can bd again tonight so that you can be sure that you catch the egg though it sounds like you have it fairly covered! I don't know much about the Maybe baby but it sounds from that that ovulation is quite imminent. If you can bd away again.
Goodluck Bethany.
Love Deb