Hi Emily,
thanks for replying and for the advice. I will give another brand a go, for tis coming month.I have been testing around 5pm in the evening and they say it doesnt matter in the kits, but a book I had said later in the day before 8 pm is best.

The main reason I thought I O when I did,, was the maybe baby ferning and the EWCM. There was lots of it too.

No I am not taking my temp. I have trouble with it and truthfully my 2 yo DD doesnt let me lie in bed long enough to get a reading!

I am not BF and not on medication. I am 38 though..so maybe my cycle is changing..Your advice is great though and after searching trough the forum I am not giving up home (and goign to assume the BFN may not be true). The other reason I wonder is I have a pain in my right side, and have for a week and a half. I had a pain in my R side before i think I ovulated too....but could be just hoping!