So I finally got to the bottom of why I was feeling so crummy. I had a middle ear infection(with no ear ache, go figure) that was causing my dizziness but ended up in ED through the week and they sorted me out. Now feel great again though been cramping today, think AF will show herself on Tuesday though I hope not.
If so we will try again next month. To be honest all of this has brought us closer so I can only hope a eventual BFP will complete us both!