LEE _ You wouldn't be human if you didn't feel ripped off about DD & you are rightly so to feel ripped off - you HAVE been ripped off & DD has also been ripped off. I know it's not the same, but Alan has missed so much of both my girls lives. Jessica was almost 3 & Claudia was only 6 months old when he went away. This is his 3rd year working away & never once has he been here for the girls birthdays or their parties, he has been home for my birthday once & funnily enough he re-arranged his schedule to be home for his fathers 50th late last year Why couldn't he 're-arrange' sometimes to be home for his own children's birthdays??? It really leaves me . I know he works away to better US as a family, but it's so not fair. He has never seen Jessica go off on her first day of school & misses out on the kids when they pass a swimming stage or just the little things. I am very lucky that he does get flown home for Christmas. I'm not trying to say I have it as tough as you, just that I can completely understand how you feel.
FREYA _ I hope Michelle (AKA Meredith Grey), can shed light on the rash thing, but it doesn't sound right & it doesn't look right either to you, so it must not be right. Do you think he has an allergy to something really simple at home? Like washing powder or something? Or it could be to medication? The rash from the ear infection when he was 9m could that be from the medication? & did they give him medication this last time for the 'chicken pox' episode? Just clutching at straws???
MAKO _ THanks for asking, yes, I have got kisses the last 2 days when I dropped her off at Pre-Primary, she has settled in like I would never have imagined (She was separated from her bestie that she made last year), & she is singing songs that her teacher has taught them & LOVING the craft/collage table & bringing me home some very 'unique' pieces of artwork. Love that Sage is getting the hang of the TT & I love especially that he prolongs the hi-5's & cheering to the enth degree!
He is allergic to penicillan so he doesnt have it; hasnt had any antibiotics in months. Im wondering if its a food allergy or something like that. Someone mentioned ringworm to me; it looks a bit like the photos I googled but not enough for me to think its that. Plus we arent anywhere around cats and the like. And they havent been outside anywhere other than kindy and I bet they are pretty stringent about cleaning & the sandpit and stuff.
Why couldn't he 're-arrange' sometimes to be home for his own children's birthdays??? It really leaves me
. I know he works away to better US as a family, but it's so not fair. He has never seen Jessica go off on her first day of school & misses out on the kids when they pass a swimming stage or just the little things. I am very lucky that he does get flown home for Christmas. I'm not trying to say I have it as tough as you, just that I can completely understand how you feel.
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