Michelle, no great words of wisdom dear lady, but I certainly understand how you feel re. lack of understanding from family. I really get peeved when people need to make your stuff about them - yep, get over it, it's about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! More fool them, but they are your family - but I would let them know you felt hurt by their lack of contact, you could have really just done with a kind word at the very least.

It's been such a huge time for you, and I think post-amnio is on the one hand such a huge relief/relese, but now on the other hand you are stressed waiting for the results, and still running through all the scenarious in your heart and head. I'm so glad and you are very lucky to have the love and support of your DH. We are all with you hon during this really b.oody difficult time.

Hugs, Lee xo