MAKO _ Dammit, I now wish I had put something in your FB status because I read your status & also the '??' & I wasn't very happy, but I didn't know who the person was in relation to you so I didn't. Grrr to them & I sometimes you just have the intuition that something is happening & I'm sorry your boss is possibly pg again, sorry for you that is. I can only imagine how tough this has been to you, it's just not fair. How is DH been just lately?
WILLOW _ I too have no clue what to contribute in here just lately, so I have only been lurking because I just feel as though I can't make any difference. I hope that makes sense? On a brighter note is V excited about school F I V E days per week? hehehe, I bet you are! LOL. Does she have a school uniform all waiting & the shoes, etc...? I'm not sure what you call the grades in NSW, but last year Jess did Kindy which was 2 days per week & this year she is in Pre-Primary which is 5 days per week & next year she hits Year 1. Is this the same for you?
KELLY _ I'm sorry your friend just didn't get it today, it's a really sinking feeling to know that the closest people to you, just don't get how things feel. Not that you wish a m/c upon anybody else, but sometimes you just wish they knew the hurt. My MIL often said off-course things about my m/c & even my own sister just doesn't understand either, but I just shut down over it now & pretend I didn't hear a thing. I agree with Janie, you need to take some YOU time! Go get a new style @ Maurice Mead or go to the movies & see Avatar & take advantage (not the mean advantage), of the help your mum is offering. Do some things for you, even buy a few housey nick nacks for Mel so you can connect it with buying them in Perth if that will help??
MICHELLE _ I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, I really hope everything goes well with his surgery. I sent you a text today, but have now read about your dad, so just press delete for me. Have you told your parents? What time is the amnio booked for? Is Greg going to that with you? I'm glad the kidlets are a somewhat distraction for you though, as frustrating as it can be at times.
BW _ I wish you were in my class at High School, my mum would have been so happy if you were my friend. Numbers & me just don't mix. LOL. How are you going lately? Everything good?
JANIE _ I think you should tell your mum, for reasons that you stated yourself, but you know your mum & your body, so you will know what's best. How little are they talking with little about bubs? How little was Nicholas? I really, really hope you don't go into early labour, so you need to rest, relax, take your chill pills & let DH be the hunter/gatherer & all the things in between! LOL
FREYA _ I was thinking about you so much the other night, the post you wrote about either being the pg or newborn mummy really hit home. That's how I felt for a loooooooong time after Claudia, when she hit the age that Jess was when I fell pg, I kept on thinking something was 'missing' & it was because I wasn't pg again. Then when she hit 2y3m which was the age Jess was when she was born, I felt naked again, like I should be giving birth again. I did second-guess myself for a long time, & I wish I could talk myself into another baby, because I would love a spontaneous birth, rather than being induced, but I'm very happy where things are right now. I have no nappies, no breast feeding, no waking during the night, the kids can put their shoes on & are becoming more independant each day, so I just hang onto that! LOL
Thanks girls. I still feel like my problems aren't as important but that's just how I am. I'm hoping today is a better day here. DH is out fishing so Sage and I are going to head to the lake and have a swim and wait for him to come back in with hopefully a decent amount of fish like last Sunday(he gave those ones away though ) so I'm hoping we can put some in our freezer today.
As for DH he's ok I think (doesn't say much) except he went off about my post on FB too and said I shouldn't post things like that cos people will ask questions and he doesn't want them to know the answer All I can say is MEN!!!
So from now on I won't be posting much on there. As for my boss I have known for quite sometime that she was always going to try for another baby and hoping she has a girl as she has 3 boys who are feral children( I don't say that about many kids but these boys OMG I wouldn't let them be around Sage)
Janie I would let your mum know too hun. Hopefully she'll respond a bit better than you're thinking she will
How are you feeling today? Just wanted to let you know Sage was/is still little. We had all the growth problems inside and outside of the womb but we are getting there slowly and now I'm trying not to worry as much about it all cos he's happy and he's healthy
You are doing everything you should be for you and your baby. Please try and relax as much as you possibly can and let your DH do whatever needs to be done
Willow Ok spill babe..Whats going on? Send me a text and I'll call you if you want or email or post here. You need to get whatever is bothering you out too
I'm thinking of you all and a big for everyone.
P.S Had a text from Bun last night and she said she and Joshua are doing well and should be home either tomorrow or Tuesday.
Mako - I know exactly how you feel hun.. I think I'm very similar to you, it's scary! I'm not sure what you're FB status update was (I think I need to find a few more of you on FB.. so PM me your details if you want me as a friend)!! Anyway.. what I was saying is that I'm the same.. I put far too much on FB sometimes and have just avoided it lately to stop myself saying too much!! Don't worry about everyone else though and if you don't want to say anything to your boss.. then don't.. let her think whatever she wants! Sending you lots of big hugs.. god knows we both need them!
Michelle - OMG.. your poor dad. Things like this always happen all at once. Thinking of you and still praying all is going to be fine with OMAR!
Janie - Big hugs for you too... and vent as much as you like. I'm glad you're filling the script.. better to be safe. Can't wait to have a big catch up when I'm back... god knows I need it too!
Big hello's and hugs for everyone else. Sorry.. have to be quick.. Mum's damn computer has gone down so I'm on the hubby's laptop and I'm not supposed to look up anything personal on here.. as it's his work one.. he would not be happy if he knew I was on here!! Oooopps.. just had to check in with everyone.
AFM - didn't go to any of the baby showers and feel bad but I just couldn't do it to myself. If I wasn't feeling bad enough already, I've had an incredibly sore throat this week too.. can hardly eat.. but hey.. I'm not really hungry anyway. Still p*ssed that I can't swim and feeling a bit crappy but I think I'm doing ok. DS had a sleep over at my MIL last night so we're off to get him soon. Was nice to have a good sleep but MIL is a little frustrating sometimes. Anyway can't go into that. Just wanted to thank you all again for the support and let you know I'm doing ok. I still can't believe this has happened and wonder when we'll ever get another bub. I know I should be happy that we have DS but we're desperate for another one.. and soon. There's a big gap between my brother and I because my Mum had so many problems and I just didn't want that for my kids. Not that we can help it.
Mako, Kelly, Michelle, thinking of you all especially. And Willow, please feel free to let loose if there's something bothering you Deb, hope all is okay in your world.......
Well I have nothing profound to say either, but just wanted to drop off some hugs. Oh, Spring, I'm sooooo glad to hear that you're having so many good days! Please feel free to post that in here, some happy news would cheer us up I think .
And Bun and Joshua, I'm so excited that you will be home soon.........can't wait to hear all about how things are going!!! We really need the 'pot of gold at the end of the rainbow' stuff in here ATM, so pleeeeaaase fill us all in
all round ladies it seems a few of us are in need of them
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) so I'm hoping we can put some in our freezer today.
All I can say is MEN!!!
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