Lee - I totally get you on the surviving and thriving issue. You certainly have a lot on your plate with 4 kiddies. I've spent the last 6 months just surviving despite my want to move onwards and upwards. A big part of my personality is about moving onto the next project even before the last is finished lol. But having 3 under 4 has put all stops on me trying to do too must more than just the basics...food, clean house, kids looked after, and getting some sleep if I can. I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel now that Eva isn't feeding as much and is sleep a little more (just a little more my I add). My first project is to move this baby fat and get out and walk a bit.

What I am trying to say is that it is ok to just survive for a period. Be kind to yourself, you've just had a baby and you have 3 others to look after too. You are doing a great job!!!

Happy New Year all. I can't wait to meet all the new bubs for 2010. I am sure there are a few just waiting to make their presence known lol...(not in my camp though, I've joined the No More Babies Club)