I've been saying "first living" or something similar. If they look puzzled, I explain I suppose I want people to realise this is normal for me, having one bub here and her big brother not here. Even yesterday I was chatting to her at the shops and said something like "this is one of the songs we played at your brother's funeral" - then realised the man next to us had heard and was staring at me


Sent from my iPhone so forgive the speelung misstacks