i have tried with teh trampolene as tehy both love it but cody just wont stop when eh si asked to let tay have a go but tay stops as soon as she is asked.

tried water slide thingo in back yard. nope cody just said no my turn she is to little etc.

tried painting and craft stuff and getting them to share the equipment cody loves drawing and art and so does tay, nope he si possesive over my craft stuff which I have lent them..

he is even possesive over the dishwasher, the toilet will only use teh laundry one and will tell tay to get out so he can go ( trying to TT tay at the moment sooo not helping )

i totally lost it with him this morning and told him to just be the kid for once and stop trying to be the parent, he couldnt wait 1 minute for me to finish on teh toilet to coem and get tay he had to pick her up and throw her out of his room. i was tired sick adn grumpy and i lost it big time i have neevr yelled so much
but this arvo he shared nicely played nicely, even asked tay if she would like some cheese when he got himself some, so i praised that great behaviour and sai how happy it made everyone so lets see if it continues.