Lucy I'm so glad that this helped open up things with your friend! YAY! & you know I am often most quiet around some people who tend to comment most, so next time I promise I will say, "I appreciate your opinion, but right now the help I need is ....."

Mel, thanks. Our two really seem to take turns in this! When Matilda is going well, Jacob isn't & vice versa LMAO! I must remind myself to see the light at the end of the tunnel