We have my ILs bout 15 minutes away, and DH keeps saying 'we should leave him with them' and I just can't because I don't wanna be a burden on them.
But as for me, the break I get is going to work 2 days a week - and even then it's not really a break as I'm still working. I don't get a chance to be just me. I'm alway mum, or a worker, never Liz.
Sending lots of hugs