Thank you all for listening
Things have calmed down, the worst of it blew over as fast as it blew up but still a lot of tension and anger in the air. I will have to find a way to get rid of it, it's really not pleasant.
I think Rapunzel's parents had the right idea. Lock em in a tower during puberty and let them out when they're done. Just make sure they get regular haircuts or the boyfriend will still manage to sneak in at night.
Lol...now there's an idea....

Here's what I would do. Find a time to sit down and look her in the eyes and tell her how much you love her. No matter what. Full stop, no qualifications. That's what matters more than anything else. xxx
Yup, definitely. I guess if we can't stop being angry I will just have to do it anyway. It IS important.

Limeslice, thanks for sharing made me feel a bit more normal! I was waiting after & wondering if anyone would call the police

Thanks again guys for the hugs, boy do I need it