Thanks Miss E- that sounds exactly like it- it only lasts a day- today he has woken up back to his normal self!!! I will do that with the photo- and tell the carers to please call if he is upset when he wakes up from his nap. All weel all e talks about is "at care?" in a happy way- he loves it and everyday he asks "care today" and if i say no he goes "aaawwwww" so i iknow he likes it- it is just an adjustment thing- so i will try really hard to have my "understanding mummy" pants on on monday afternoon and tuesdays and not my "very cranky mummy" pants!!! That might help a bit too!!!

ezmay- they did offer us another day but they only had teusday- and i thought that monday and tuesday in a row would be a bit too much in one go- if they have a wed/thurs come up i may take it!