How do i answer this??

[Rouge]

m2c I think she understands because you have raised her well. For her to feel the need to comfort her mother is beautiful. And even more beautiful is that you let her! I think its always important for our kids to see we are only human, we are not robots and we too have emotions. And also to allow them to comfort us. Paris has been there to comfort me many times. I just asked Paris "Does it make you sad when you've given mummy cuddles when she was sad." "No mummy it was good, not good because you were sad, but good that I could look after you because you always look after me." I also think back to my childhood, there is no way I would have been allowed to console my parents, and they would have seen it as a sign of weakness for me to know they were in need.

You are doing a wonderful job

[mummy2chloe]

Niliac thank you so much you have made me feel so much better, chloe and i are really close sometimes maybe to close, as she likes to have friends sleep over but she doesnt like to sleep over there place and i ask her why and she tells me that she like to be at home with me, i try and make it sound like heaps of fun to sleep at friends places but she will only go over there till it gets dark and then she wants to come home, she can be gone from the moment she wakes up till the sun starts to go down with out missing me but the moment it gets closer to bed is when she wants to come home, it doesnt bother me i know that eventually she will grow out of it and will never want to come home lol so i think i will enjoy it while it last, she wont be little forever.

thanks again for your reply i feel alot better