I'm glad to read this thread. There are very few people I trust with looking after DS and my hubby can make me feel like I am little crazy.

One night we had a neighbour girl look after him. It was easy- we put him to bed and all she had to do was sit and watch telly in case he woke up. When we came home, the lights in his room were blazing and he was up in the lounge with the sitter! I freaked out. DH was like "oh, she just needs to learn how to do it". I practically screamed "well, she's not learning on my child!!". DH really made me feel like I was over-reacting....maybe I was, but it just confirmed my opinion that I really only like my mum looking after Peter. I'm glad I'm not the only one.