I've lost patience.

[Shanti]

I hope my comments didn't upset you Mel, was just trying to offer suggestions and support. I know you do the best you can by all of your kids, I can only imagine how much work it all is. I'm exhausted with just one toddler and being pregnant!
Sounds like you are giving your DD plenty of one-on-one time....so it mustn't be that then.

[Olive]

has she ever had a hearing test????? or ears checked for fluid/glue ear??