Just need to de-brief

[Lulu]

I hear you loud and clear on all these issues hun, geez it can be hard.

[Jennifer13]

no answers or advice (from someone who isn't in the same situation), but I hope things get better soon... FWIW, you really don't know what would have happened in a year's time anyway and you may get to DS1 being 3 and think "thank goodness I'm not trying to juggle these new challenges with a tiny baby"! again.