Hi...

Been looking on the forum for quite a while and finally got around to joining.

I have a 15 yr son who has not seen his biological father for nearly 10 yrs and i have recently found him. He told me that he has been trying to find me since he left Adelaide and moved to Perth. My son at first was over the moon at being in contact with him but as time has gone on the time between contact is growing. I'm sick of seeing my son moping around waiting for his father to get online. It is affecting him at home and at school. It has been nearly 9 months now since we made contact but the father still has not attempted to visit and very rarely calls. It seems like i'm the one making all the effort and i don't know what to do. The longer it goes on the more i think that he is only communicating with my son when he has nothing else better to do.
To me... these arn't the actions of a father who has been looking for us for the last 10 yrs. What should i do?