I hear ya!!! Luckily for me one of the other girls had a constant screamer like me, so we limped our way though.
Actually it was pretty funny at one stage, althoguh separated by thousands of k's, both our kids seemed to do the same stuff to drive us crazy. And we both went back for more.......

Mitch was terribly hard to settle too. Once you get into a overtired/cry cycle it feels endless. Sometimes I think he was overloaded, he still needs his environment to be calm even now.
I have vague memories of trying to sleep on the couch with my leg hanging off the end rocking the pram.
CAn you go stay with your mum for a week or so?

Maybe check out the other de-briefs here too. Seriously - you are NOT the only one with a baby that didn't read the manual. I promise.

xoxoxoxo