I'm subbing -I've been meaning to start a thread like this too Peanutter, thanks.

Can I add an extra question in... For those who had a CS with their second child, how did that impact on things? Did you have your LO see you on the first day while you were bed ridden, or wait till you were up and about? How did your LO cope with you being in hospital for a few nights and then with you not being able to pick them up etc? TIA